Sunday, November 27, 2011

LOLITA MEME DAY ⑰

Day 1 – 10 things about your lolita bubble.
Day 2 – 10 things you love about lolita.
Day 3 – 10 things you hate about lolita.
Day 4 – 10 different kinds of food you like.
Day 5 – 10 items on your wishlist.
Day 6 – 10 things you can’t live without in lolita.
Day 7 – 10 people who inspire your lolita style.
Day 8 – 10 songs that inspire your inner lolita.
Day 9 – 10 things you will never do in lolita.
Day 10 – What’s in your lolita bag?
Day 11 – A day in your lolita life in pictures.
Day 12 – A picture of yourself before lolita came in to your life.
Day 13 – A picture of your favorite sweets.
Day 14 – A picture of your dream item.
Day 15 – A picture of your last lolita purchase.
Day 16 – Your outfit for the day.
Day 17 – What do you want more then anything right now?
Day 18 – A picture of your favorite lolita style.
Day 19 – What’s in your make-up bag?
Day 20 – A picture of a lolita friend.
Day 21 – Your favorite fictitious lolita.
Day 22 – A picture of your room.
Day 23 – A picture of your handwriting.
Day 24 – A picture of you from a meet.
Day 25 – Your favorite lolita themed artwork.
Day 26 – Your Facebook profile picture.
Day 27 – A song that fits your favorite lolita style.
Day 28 – A picture of the perfect lolita location.
Day 29 – A picture of a lolita you would love to meet for real.
Day 30 – A photo of yourself taken today and 3 good things that have happened over the last 30 days.

★What do you want more then anything right now?

I'm pretty content with my life at the moment. I have recently scored a job and am excited to be able to make my own money. There is one thing I do want. Lolita friends are hard to come by so every time I meet another Lolita I'm really happy. The one thing I wish for is that my closest Lolita friends will always be connected. Erica is currently studying abroad in Japan and Tania is going to be leaving later next month. It saddens me that we can't physically spend time together but I cherish every second I spend with them. The fashion itself takes quite a bit of courage to wear out and in my case being a male, I have to really push myself to leave my house in my frills. Being with others that share the same passion for this fashion niche makes it a whole lot easier. My oldest Lolita friend would be Sam. Although she is just starting to wear it, she has long been a fan of it. Ashley is my newest Lolita friend and is super fun to be around. These girls make up my core group of Lolita friends and I don't think I would have the courage to wear it out without them. They make me feel like less of an oddity and inspire me to care less of what society thinks as far as gender appropriate clothing goes. They are all so important to me and I hope we will never fall out of contact.

Until next time,
                      パトリック~☆

Monday, November 21, 2011

Tania's Birthday Meet Up + LOLITA MEME DAY ⑯

Day 1 – 10 things about your lolita bubble.
Day 2 – 10 things you love about lolita.
Day 3 – 10 things you hate about lolita.
Day 4 – 10 different kinds of food you like.
Day 5 – 10 items on your wishlist.
Day 6 – 10 things you can’t live without in lolita.
Day 7 – 10 people who inspire your lolita style.
Day 8 – 10 songs that inspire your inner lolita.
Day 9 – 10 things you will never do in lolita.
Day 10 – What’s in your lolita bag?
Day 11 – A day in your lolita life in pictures.
Day 12 – A picture of yourself before lolita came in to your life.
Day 13 – A picture of your favorite sweets.
Day 14 – A picture of your dream item.
Day 15 – A picture of your last lolita purchase.
Day 16 – Your outfit for the day.
Day 17 – What do you want more then anything right now?
Day 18 – A picture of your favorite lolita style.
Day 19 – What’s in your make-up bag?
Day 20 – A picture of a lolita friend.
Day 21 – Your favorite fictitious lolita.
Day 22 – A picture of your room.
Day 23 – A picture of your handwriting.
Day 24 – A picture of you from a meet.
Day 25 – Your favorite lolita themed artwork.
Day 26 – Your Facebook profile picture.
Day 27 – A song that fits your favorite lolita style.
Day 28 – A picture of the perfect lolita location.
Day 29 – A picture of a lolita you would love to meet for real.
Day 30 – A photo of yourself taken today and 3 good things that have happened over the last 30 days.

Tania had decided to have a small meet up with her a few of her local Lolita friends for her birthday. Sam and I went to the UH dorms to meet up with her and get dressed before heading out the the restaurant to meet up with Ashley. It was a little bit of a challenge to find the place but with the help of technology we found it after some trial and error. The restaurant was set in a lush environment with many trees and flowering plants everywhere. Finding parking on the other hand, was quite the challenge. After rounding the area a couple of times we where able to snag a spot relatively close to the restaurant. The restaurant itself was a quaint little building surrounded by a garden. The interior was similar to that of a country home.
We were quickly seated and ordered our drinks. I had opted for the mango daiquiri. One good thing depending on how you look at it, is that all the drinks are alcohol free.

We chatted for a short while before our orders were taken. I was feeling full that day from having cake for breakfast and devouring some of the Ferrero Rocher candies that Tania had in her dorm room. Tania and Sam chose to have pocket sandwiches and Ashley had a salad.
After finishing their meals our waitress came by to see if anyone wanted desserts. I was set for the meal with that drink being way more filling than I had expected but she had brought out the dessert tray to show us what was available. I cracked once I saw the brownie option. we all decided to get dessert in the end.
After being stuffed to the limit, we set out to Waikiki to check out the Hello Kitty collection at Forever21. The Waikiki Forever 21 is amazing and is 3 floors of awesome. We also checked out a small shop that carried many cute things and Asian cosmetics. After, we went to Sephora before splitting up to go out separate ways.
★Coordinate Breakdown★
Sailor Blouse: Metamorphose temps de fille
Sweater: Peace Now
Ouji Pants: HeartE
Socks: Innocent World
Bag: Putumayo
Boots:Off brand
Vest: Off brand
Hat:Off brand
Until next time,
                      パトリック~☆

Sunday, November 6, 2011

MEET UP DISASTER

A friend and I decided that I would be  fun to have a small pre Halloween meet up with a couple of our Lolita friends. We had decided on an Alice in Wonderland theme and would dress up as Lolita versions on Alice,The White Rabbit, The Cheshire Cat and The Mad Hatter. I had chosen to be The Mad Hatter. When the day finally arrived, I got up rather early to get ready. When I came out of my room I was rather surprised not to see my sister anywhere in sight. I later found out from one of my nieces that she went out with one of her friends and that I was to watch her kids. WTF~ I had been waiting for this day to come for weeks and my sister screwed me over. Being rather upset because I had told everyone that I was going out on that day and all the time I had wasted getting ready I sulked for the rest of the day. I attempted to text my sister to see when she would be back but she kept saying later and never gave me an exact time. I pretty much let the kids do whatever they wanted and just made sure that no one died and the house didn't burn down. When my sister returned, I simply bitched her out and direct her to the enormous mess that her kids had made. Her friend that she went out with for the day felt rather bad knowing that my sister ruined my day and had brought me a box of sweets from cake shop they had visited.
I decided to go for a darker Visual Kei inspired look for The Mad Hatter. I don't have a full outfit shot but the pieces I used were from Alice and the Pirates, h.NAOTO, B.P.N. and Innocent World. I had also made a small card to adorn my hat with since The Mad Hatter would not be as recognizable with out his 10/6 card.
I hope that in the future we could maybe revisit this theme. I really like the way everything looked together and was heart broken that I couldn't attend the meet. I swear the next time my sister pulls this shit on me there will be dire consequences...

Until next time,
                      パトリック~☆